Ian communicating about happiness with Elizabeth, using RPM

This is another transcript from one of Ian’s RPM lesson with Elisabeth Vosseller. She is doing such amazing work with the RPM technique and it has opened up a such an unimaginable world for Ian and his family. Go to her website www.growingkidstherapy.com to learn more about the wonderful work she is doing with this amazing teaching method.
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We opened up the lesson by listening to “Happy” by Pharrell Williams and having a little dance party.Who is this song by? PHARRELL WILLIAMS
Do you know what movie it is from? DESPICABLE MEHere are some quotes on happiness. What do these quotes mean to you? 

“Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.” ~ Abraham Lincoln
YOU CAN CHOOSE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT LIFE, UNHAPPY OR JOYFUL, FEARFUL OR BRAVE, VIOLENT OR PEACEFUL, OR ANYTHING ELSE YOU WANT TO BE.

Who was Abraham Lincoln? PRESIDENT WHO FREED THE SLAVES

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” Mahatma Gandhi
MY HAPPINESS IS LOVING MY LIFE PARTICULARLY WHEN IT IS AS BEAUTIFUL AS IT IS RIGHT NOW.

Who was Gandhi? INDIAN MAN OF PEACE

“The Constitution only gives people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself.” Benjamin Franklin 
FOR YOU TO BE HAPPY, YOU HAVE TO WORK FOR IT.

Who was Benjamin Franklin? AMERICAN STATESMAN

“Everything has its wonders, even darkness and silence, and I learn, whatever state I may be in, therein to be content.” Helen Keller
BEING AUTISTIC DOES NOT LIMIT MY HAPPINESS. I SIMPLY EXPERIENCE HAPPINESS HAV ING A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY WHO LOVES ME.

Who was Helen Keller? A BLIND AND DEAF WOMAN
Creative Writing: What is your philosophy of happiness? Create a “User’s Guide to Happiness!” Be sure to state your definition of happiness and how one might achieve and sustain happiness! 

MY GUIDE TO HAPPINESS

HAPPINESS IS HAVING THE LIGHT OF LOVE SHINING AND BEING ABLE TO SEE IT. ABLE NOT TO SEE WHAT YOU ARE NOT AND PUTTING YOURSELF IN SOMEONE’S LIFE. AVOID COMPARING YOUR LIFE TO SOMEONE ELSE’S LIFE. THIS IS HOW WE CAN ACHIEVE HAPPINESS. THE MORAL OF THIS STORY IS TO ENJOY THE LIFE YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN.

Elizabeth and Ian discuss Damon and Pythias

(Ian’s words are in CAPS)

According to the Greek story, Damon and Pythias grew up in Sicily, and they were always best friends. One day when the two of them were visiting the city of Syracuse Pythias made some remarks that were considered to be insults to the king of Syracuse, and the king got very angry. The king had Pythias arrested and sentenced him to death.

What country is this story from?  GREEK

What is it a story about?  FRIENDSHIP

Where did Damon and Pythias go?  SYRACUSE

What happened while the friends were in Syracuse?  KING OF SYRACUSE WAS INSULTED AND SENTENCED PYTHES TO DEATH  (I pointed out the correct spelling -Pythias- to Ian.  This was a great phonetic attempt of such a hard name!)

What does ins ult mean? NOT NICE WORDS

How does an insult make someone feel? ANGRY

What do you think of the King’s reaction to Pythias’ insult?  A LITTLE EXTREME

What do you think would be an appropriate punishment?  NO DESERVE DEATH….

what punishment would you give instead?….TIME OUT (love it!)

Pythias said, “Couldn’t I just go home and tell my  family what happened and say goodbye?” But the king said, “Why should I trust that you would come back to face your punishment?” Damon said, “I will stay with you while Pythias goes home to say goodbye. If he doesn’t come back, I will accept his punishment.” The king couldn’t believe anyone would trust their friend so much. But he agreed to let Pythias go. He was supposed to be back in one month. If he wasn’t back by the end of the month, the king would kill Damon instead.

What did the friends feel for each other?  TRUST

What does trust mean? HAVE FAITH

Pythias went home, and said goodbye and set out to return to face his punishment. But on the way back, his ship was attacked by pirates. Pythias tried to explain to the pirates, but they just threw him overboard. Pythias swam to shore, but then he didn’t have any money or a horse or any way of getting back to Damon. He was so worried that Damon would be killed! He started to run as fast as he could towards the king’s palace.

What happened on Pythias’ return to Syracuse? ON WAY BACK WAS KIDNAPPED BY PIRATES

Why was he worried? DID NOT WANT DAMON TO DIE

Meanwhile the king was telling Damon, “See! Pythias has abandoned you. I told you he’d never come back.” But Damon knew his friend would never leave him to be killed. Damon knew Pythias would not abandon him. On the last day, the king had Damon tied up and took him outside into the courtyard of the palace to be killed. But Damon was still not worried. He knew Pythias would come. And sure enough, just as Damon was about to be killed, Pythias came running in. He was filthy dirty and his clothes were all in rags from swimming in the ocean. And he had lost his shoes and had to run barefoot the whole way. But he was so happy to have come on time! He cried out, “See! I have come back. Let Damon go! I am ready to take his place now.” 

How do you think Damon felt when Pythias returned? RELIEVED

How do you think the king felt?  SHOCKED

What do you think happened next? KING KILLED PYTHIAS

But the king was so impressed by this great friendship that he did not kill Pythias after all. Instead, he kept both the friends at his court so they could give him good advice.

Why did the king keep Damon and Pythias as advisors?  HE WAS IMPRESSED

Let’s talk about friendship.  What does friendship mean to you? Describe your ideal friend.

FRIENDSHIP DOES NOT EXIST FOR ME.  I WANT FRIENDS AND SOMEONE TO HANG OUT WITH BUT NOT SURE HOW TO DO IT.

what would you like to do with a friend?  LISTEN TO MUSIC.

Why do you think it has been tricky for you to make a friend?  BECAUSE I CANNOT TALK.